READ
For Belgium, I
read The Misfortunates, by Dimitri
Verhulst. “Misfortunate” isn’t even listed in my Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, Eleventh Edition, so I
went to the Internet to see what it means (although I had a pretty good idea).
According to oxforddictionaries.com,
“misfortunate” is a Scottish term meaning “an unfortunate person.”
With such a
sad-sounding title, I had hoped this book would be purely a work of fiction.
But no – it’s a semi-autobiographical novel. In fact, the dedication reads, in
part: “And in memory of my grandmother, who wanted to avoid the shame and died
while I was completing the last pages of the manuscript.” Honestly, faced with
this much gloom before I’d even read a word of the first chapter, I’m surprised
I followed through with it.
As I got into
it, though, it wasn’t an especially sad book, at least not in the sense that it
made me want to cry. It’s a series of vignettes about four brothers (three
adults and one teenager) living in the fictional town of Arsendegem, Belgium,
with their mother and Dimitri, the 13-year-old son of one of the brothers. Dimitri
is the book’s narrator, and these vignettes are woven together loosely to tell
the story of his coming of age among four men whose lives revolve around alcohol and other
vices. Mostly alcohol, though.
When Dimitri is
born, his father is at one of the local pubs and doesn’t make it to the
hospital in time for the birth. When he finally arrives on a bicycle,
inebriated, he snatches baby Dimitri up, loads him onto the bicycle, and takes
him to all his favorite pubs to show him to his friends. More drinking ensues,
and it’s a miracle that Dimitri is returned to the hospital in one piece by his
father later that night.
Some chapters
in the book are comical, such as the one detailing the family’s obsession with
the music of Roy Orbison, and others are poignant, like the one in which
Dimitri, now an adult, visits his grandmother in the nursing home where she is
in the advanced stages of dementia. The reader follows Dimitri’s father’s
journey to the rehab clinic to try to take control of his drinking, and Dimitri’s
unhappiness about becoming a father himself. Throughout the book, there is an
air of fatalism, a feeling among the characters that their lot in life is
simply to drink, smoke, and carouse until cancer or some other illness kills
them.
Dimitri’s life
doesn’t follow the pattern of the other men in the family, but the scars from
his earlier years are apparent in the writing. Also apparent, however, is his
great affection for those men. As an adult who has long since moved away from
Arsendegem, he writes, “The misfortunate have a more realistic view of the
world; my love for my uncles is vast and incomprehensible, but no one has ever
had the gall to demand comprehensibility of love.”
COOK
Food was
mentioned occasionally in The Misfortunates, but nothing sounded very good, and practically nothing was vegan
or veganizable, although one of Dimitri’s uncles did joke, “Next thing they’ll
come up with meat-free meat.” Mostly, the men in the family just drank. As
Dimitri said of his father, “The years in which he dutifully drank himself into
serial oblivion had robbed him of his appetite.”
That left me
free to search the Internet for any Belgian recipes I could veganize, and the
Belgian potato soup recipe I found on the Recipes Wiki
website looked perfect. I substituted margarine for the butter and vegetable
broth for the chicken stock, of course, but I wasn’t sure how to replace the
light cream. One website suggested blending silken tofu until smooth, so that’s
what I did. I also added salt and pepper. The soup was delicious, and I’m sure it will become a
winter favorite for me.
GIVE
Women did not
fare well in The Misfortunates. The
only man in Dimitri’s family who appeared to have had a relationship of any
duration with a woman was his dad, and that didn’t end happily. Attractive
women were objectified, and the men didn't consider most other women worth discussing. The
whole lot of Verhulst men seemed to go back and forth between being misogynists
and simply not being interested in anything that wasn’t booze.
In choosing an
organization for this week’s donation, I decided to get back at this old boys’
club by giving my money to a group that helps girls. Greenlight for Girls,
which I found through the GlobalGiving website, "holds one-day,
girl-focused events to show the fun in math, science, engineering and
technology through hands-on workshops run by role-models in STEM fields." The
events are offered in Brussels free of charge, and the organization reaches
out to girls in low-income neighborhoods especially. More information about this project
is available at https://www.globalgiving.org/projects/inspire-girls-in-hands-on-science-around-the-world/.
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